Pickup artists: Perbedaan antara revisi

'''Seduction community''' adalah sebuah subkultur dari [[self-help teacher]]s dan laki-laki yang ingin mencapai sukses lebih besar dengan wanita melalui self-improvement dan pemahaman yang lebih baik akan [[psikologi sosial]].<ref>{{Cite web |url=http://comment.independent.co.uk/columnists_m_z/rowan_pelling/article310137.ece |title=Salinan arsip |access-date=2007-01-11 |archive-date=2006-11-24 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20061124173126/http://comment.independent.co.uk/columnists_m_z/rowan_pelling/article310137.ece |dead-url=yes }}</ref> Subkultur ini biasanya diadakan melalui forum-forum internet dan kelompok-kelompok lokal, disebut "lairs".<ref>{{Cite web |url=http://www.fastseduction.com/lairpage.shtml |title=Salinan arsip |access-date=2007-01-11 |archive-date=2011-03-09 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20110309043702/http://www.fastseduction.com/lairpage.shtml |dead-url=yes }}</ref> Para pendukung subkultur ini biasanya menyebut mereka sendiri 'the community'<ref>http://observer.guardian.co.uk/review/story/0,6903,1148354,00.html</ref> atau "'pickup artists"'''.

Seduction community banyak diliput oleh media massa, terutama setelah buku ''[[The Game]]'' oleh [[jurnalis]] dan pickup artist [[Neil Strauss]] (nicknamed "Style") mencapai New York Times' bestseller list. Strauss membandingkan kelompok ini dengan sebuah "men's self-help movement."<ref>{{cite news |last=Morris |first=Dave |url=http://www.eye.net/eye/issue/issue_10.13.05/arts/artsweek.html |title=Get laid, get fucked |publisher=The Eye Weekly |date=2005-10-13 |accessdate=2006-12-22|archive-date=2006-06-26|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20060626123314/http://eye.net/eye/issue/issue_10.13.05/arts/artsweek.html|dead-url=yes}}</ref>

Sejarah seduction community diawali dengan diterbitkannya buku karya Eric Weber pada 1970 berjudul ''How to Pick Up Girls''.<ref>[{{Cite web |url=http://www.westword.com/Issues/2006-06-01/news/feature_3.html] |title=Salinan arsip |access-date=2007-01-11 |archive-date=2007-01-18 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20070118053232/http://www.westword.com/Issues/2006-06-01/news/feature_3.html |dead-url=yes }}</ref> Pada tahun 1980-an, dua California self-help gurus mulai menjual nasihat-nasihat mereka untuk bertemu dengan wanita menarik. Salah satunya adalah "R. Don Steele". Ia dipengaruhi oleh [[Ayn Rand]] dan membantu laki-laki di atas 35 tahun bertemu dengan wanita-wanita muda. Yang lainnya adalah [[Ross Jeffries]], ia mendukung sejumlah teknik [[Neuro Linguistic Programming]] (NLP) yang disebut "Speed Seduction" (SS). Pada 1994, Lewis De Payne, saat itu murid Jeffries dan sahabat [[Kevin Mitnick]], mendirikan newsgroup [[alt.seduction.fast]] ("ASF").<ref>[{{Cite web |url=http://www.gatago.com/alt/seduction/fast/15893373.html] |title=Salinan arsip |access-date=2007-01-11 |archive-date=2007-09-27 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20070927045914/http://www.gatago.com/alt/seduction/fast/15893373.html |dead-url=yes }}</ref> Hal ini memulai berbagai forum diskusi internet, mailing list, blog, dan situs-situs di mana teknik seduction dapat dipertukarkan.<ref>"He Aims! He Shoots! Yes!!", Neil Strauss, New York Times, 25 January 2004</ref><ref>http://www.metroactive.com/papers/metro/02.08.06/nlp-0606.html</ref> Newsgroup alt.seduction.fast kemudian mendapat terlalu banyak [[spam]] sehingga sebuah kelompok bernama "Learn the Skills Corporation" mengembangkan sebuah alternatif lain dengan nama "Moderated ASF" (atau "mASF"), dengan jumlah anggota lebih dari 20,000.<ref>{{Cite web |url=http://www.houstonpress.com/Issues/2005-06-02/news/feature_full.html |title=Salinan arsip |access-date=2007-01-11 |archive-date=2006-12-14 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20061214120955/http://www.houstonpress.com/Issues/2005-06-02/news/feature_full.html |dead-url=yes }}</ref>

== Gerakan Lokallokal ==

Di Indonesia sendiri, terdapat pionir komunitas serupayang bisa dianggap berkaitan bernama "Hitman System" yang didirikan oleh Jet Veetlev, Kei Savourie, dan Lex dePraxis semenjak tahun 2006.,<ref>{{Cite web |url=http://www.thejakartapost.com/news/2007/06/12/hitman-system-promises-turn-men-039glossy039-ladykillers.html-0 |title=Salinan arsip |access-date=2009-12-15 |archive-date=2010-04-10 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20100410134224/http://www.thejakartapost.com/news/2007/06/12/hitman-system-promises-turn-men-039glossy039-ladykillers.html-0 |dead-url=yes }}</ref> Merekanamun bertujuandengan memaksimalkanperbedaan kaumtujuan: laki-lakimemberikan dalamedukasi bidang cinta danhubungan romansa.<ref>{{Cite web |url=http://thejakartaglobe.com/culture/relationship-gurus-transform-long-time-losers-into-lovers/312765 |title=Salinan arsip |access-date=2009-12-15 |archive-date=2009-06-25 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20090625015245/http://thejakartaglobe.com/culture/relationship-gurus-transform-long-time-losers-into-lovers/312765 |dead-url=yes }}</ref> Walaupun sekilas mirip, kelompok ini mengklaim perbedaan utama mereka dari seduction community terletak fokus mereka terhadap peningkatan kualitas pribadi laki-laki dan perempuan serta wawasan tentang hubungan cinta, bukannya mendapatkan atau mengumpulkan wanita untuk bersenang-senang.<ref>{{Cite web |url=http://hitmansystem.com/majalahtempo.php |title=Salinan arsip |access-date=2009-12-15 |archive-date=2009-12-28 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20091228030228/http://hitmansystem.com/majalahtempo.php |dead-url=yes }}</ref>

# [http://en.pickupedia.org "Wikipedia for Pickup Artists"] {{Webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20080828042854/http://en.pickupedia.org/ |date=2008-08-28 }} - It is an independent wikipedia for Pickup Artists with many Acronyms that can help you to get along. Especially for beginners

# [http://comment.independent.co.uk/columnists_m_z/rowan_pelling/article310137.ece "Seduction? Any woman with her own hair and a bottle of vodka can do it"] {{Webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20061124173126/http://comment.independent.co.uk/columnists_m_z/rowan_pelling/article310137.ece |date=2006-11-24 }}, Rowan Pelling, The Independent (UK), 04 September 2005

# [http://www.houstonpress.com/Issues/2005-06-02/news/feature_full.html "Keeping Score"] {{Webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20061214120955/http://www.houstonpress.com/Issues/2005-06-02/news/feature_full.html |date=2006-12-14 }}, Craig Malisow, Houston Press, 2 Jun 2005

# [http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/masfwiki.cgi FastSeduction 101 Wiki] {{Webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20070930193822/http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/masfwiki.cgi |date=2007-09-30 }}, 4 Jan 2006, accessed 18 Mar 2006

# "[https://web.archive.org/web/20050716235052/http://www.montrealmirror.com/2005/071405/news2.html Seduction for Dummies]," Kristian Gravenor, Montreal Mirror, 14 July 2005

# [http://www.fastseduction.com/asf-faq.shtml mASF FAQ] {{Webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20110524223047/http://www.fastseduction.com/asf-faq.shtml |date=2011-05-24 }}, 3 Mar 2002

# [http://www.latimes.com/features/lifestyle/cl-et-game31aug31,0,1782296.story? Danger: pickup artists ahead] {{Webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20060901181558/http://www.latimes.com/features/lifestyle/cl-et-game31aug31,0,1782296.story |date=2006-09-01 }}, Deborah Netburn, Los Angeles Times, 31 August 2005

# "[http://www.macleans.ca/culture/books/article.jsp?content=20050829_111329_111329 Books: Q&A with author Neil Strauss] {{Webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20100619125551/http://www.macleans.ca/culture/books/article.jsp?content=20050829_111329_111329 |date=2010-06-19 }}", Lianne George, MacLean's (Canada) 29 August 2005

# [https://web.archive.org/web/20070311161154/http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/thr/article_display.jsp?vnu_content_id=1002074610 Weitz putting 'Game' face on], Tatiana Siegel, The Hollywood Reporter, 24 February 2006-->