Frot: Perbedaan antara revisi

{{ForUntuk|aktris Prancis|Catherine Frot}}

{{DistinguishBedakan|frotteurisme}}

[[Berkas:Wiki-frot1.png|jmpl|200px|Ilustrasi dua orang pria yang saling menggesekkan penis mereka.]]

'''Frot''' (kependekan dari [[sesks nonpenetratif#Frottage|''frottage'']], dari {{lang-fr|frotter}}, "menggesek") adalah sebuah bentuk [[seks nonpenetratif]] pada [[lelaki seks lelaki]] ketika [[penis manusia|penis]] disentuhkan ke penis pasangan.<ref name="Advocate.com">{{cite news |title=The New Sex Police|work=The Advocate|date=2005-04-12|accessdate=2011-02-12|pages=39–40, 42|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=mGMEAAAAMBAJ&pg=PA39&dq=#v=onepage&q&f=false |archive-date=2023-07-26|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230726075015/https://books.google.com/books?id=mGMEAAAAMBAJ&pg=PA39&dq=#v=onepage&q&f=false|dead-url=no}}</ref> Istilah ini dipopulerkan oleh aktivis pria [[gay]] yang tidak menyukai praktik [[seks anal]]<ref name="Advocate.com"/> namun kini tidak lagi terkait dengan itu. Karena frot tidak melibatkan [[penetrasi]] sehingga meminimalkan penyebaran [[HIV/AIDS]], frot dinilai cenderung lebih [[seks aman|aman]]. Akan tetapi, frot masih dapat [[penyakit menular seksual|menularkan penyakit lainnya]] seperti [[human papillomavirus|HPV]] dan [[kutu kelamin]].<ref name="aids.gov">{{cite web|title=Sexual Risk Factors|publisher=[[AIDS.gov]]|accessdate=2012-06-08|url=http://aids.gov/hiv-aids-basics/prevention/reduce-your-risk/sexual-risk-factors/|deadurl=yes|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20120502080627/http://aids.gov/hiv-aids-basics/prevention/reduce-your-risk/sexual-risk-factors/|archivedate=201-05-02}}</ref><ref name="Hales">{{Cite book|first=Dianne|last=Hales|title=An Invitation to Health Brief 2010-2011| publisher = [[Cengage Learning]]|year = 2008|accessdate=2013-08-29|pages=269–271| isbn = 978-0495391920|url=https://books.google.com/?id=oP91HVIMPRIC&pg=PA269|archive-date=2023-07-26|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230726075016/https://books.google.com/books?id=oP91HVIMPRIC&pg=PA269&hl=en|dead-url=no}}</ref>

[[Primatologi]] mengenal istilah ''genital-genital (GG) rubbing'' untuk mendeskripsikan perilaku seksual seperti [[tribadtribadisme]] pada [[bonobo]] betina<ref name="de Waal FB, 1995">{{cite journal|title=Bonobo Sex and Society |last=de Waal |first=Frans B. M. |authorlink=Frans de Waal |journal=[[Scientific American]] |volume=272 |issue=3 |pages=58–88 |date=March 1995 |pmid=7871411 |doi=10.1038/scientificamerican0395-82 |url=http://www.biozentrum.uni-wuerzburg.de/uploads/media/Bonobo_sex_01.pdf |accessdate=21 December 2011 |quote=They also practice so-called penis-fencing, in which two males hang face to face from a branch while rubbing their erect penises together. ...Perhaps the bonobo's most typical sexual pattern, undocumented in any other primate, is genito-genital rubbing (or GG rubbing) between adult females. One female facing another clings with arms and legs to a partner that, standing on both hands and feet, lifts her off the ground. |deadurl=yes |archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20120127051545/http://www.biozentrum.uni-wuerzburg.de/uploads/media/Bonobo_sex_01.pdf |archivedate=27 January 2012 |df= }}</ref><ref>{{cite journal |vauthors=Paoli T, Palagi E, Tacconi G, Tarli SB |title=Perineal swelling, intermenstrual cycle, and female sexual behavior in bonobos (Pan paniscus) |journal=Am J Primatol |volume=68 |issue=4 |pages=333–47 |date=Apr 2006 |pmid=16534808 |doi=10.1002/ajp.20228 }}</ref> serta pada pejantan (yang kadang disebut [[anggar penis]] [''penis fencing'']).<ref name="de Waal FB, 1995"/> Karena itu, perilaku saling menggesekkan penis antara pejantan diperkirakan telah ada sebelum pemisahan evolusi antara [[manusia]] dandengan bonobo.<ref>{{cite journal |last = M. | first = Hodge | authorlink = |first2=Evelyn|last2= Blackwood |first3=Jeffrey M.|last3= Dickemann |first4=Doug|last4=Jones |first5=Frank|last5= Muscarella |first6=Paul L.|last6= Vasey |first7=Walter L.|last7= Williams | title = The Evolution of Human Homosexual Behavior |url = https://archive.org/details/sim_current-anthropology_2000-06_41_3/page/385 | journal = Current Anthropology | volume = 41| issue = 3| pages = 385–413 | publisher = | year = 2000 | doi =10.1086/300145 | pmid=10768881}}</ref>

| volume = 44 | issue = 4 | pages = 345–352 | date = October 1995 | doi = 10.2307/584989 | publisher = National Council on Family Relations | jstor = 584989}}</ref><ref>{{Cite journal|last=Pilowsky|first=Daniel|last2=Wu|first2=Li-Tzy|date=2015|year=|title=Sexual risk behaviors and HIV risk among Americans aged 50 years or older: a review|url=http://www.dovepress.com/sexual-risk-behaviors-and-hiv-risk-among-americans-aged-50-years-or-ol-peer-reviewed-article-SAR|journal=Substance Abuse and Rehabilitation|language=|volume=|issue=|pages=51-60|doi=10.2147/SAR.S78808|issn=|access-date=2019-07-06|archive-date=2020-10-20|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20201020033234/https://www.dovepress.com/sexual-risk-behaviors-and-hiv-risk-among-americans-aged-50-years-or-ol-peer-reviewed-article-SAR|dead-url=no}}</ref> Meskipun demikian, frot masih dapat menularkan penyakit lainnya seperti [[Human papillomavirus|HPV]] dan [[kutu kelamin]].<ref name="aids.gov"/><ref name="Hales"/>

Beberapa pria gay ataupun [[lelaki seks lelaki]] (LSL) cenderung memilih frot atau bentuk [[masturbasi bersama]] lainnya karena dinilai lebih nyaman dan lebih emosional ketimbang [[seks anal]]. Sebagian lainnya beralasan frot merupakan pilihan alternatif [[seks aman|yang lebih aman]] daripada penetrasi anal.<ref name=Advocate.com/><ref name="Virgin">{{cite book|first=Michael|last=Joseph Gross|title = Like a Virgin|id = 0001-8996|work=The Advocate|publisher=Here Publishing|year=2003|pages=44–45|accessdate=2011-03-12|url=https://books.google.com/?id=eWQEAAAAMBAJ&pg=PA44}}</ref><ref name="Johnson and Johnson">{{cite book|title=Gay Perspective: Things Our Homosexuality Tells Us about the Nature of God & the Universe|isbn = 978-1-59021-015-4|publisher=Lethe Press|year=2008|page=139|accessdate=2011-02-12|url=https://books.google.com/?id=LPyhsuVbUlAC&pg=PA139 |author1=Edwin Clark Johnson |author2=Toby Johnson }}</ref><ref name="Underwood">{{cite book | author =Steven Gregory Underwood|title =Gay men and anal eroticism: tops, bottoms, and versatiles|isbn = 978-1-56023-375-6|publisher=Psychology Press|year=2003|pages=4|accessdate=2011-02-12|url=https://books.google.com/?id=i4wRl0_8NuUC&pg=PA4}}</ref> Beberapa pendukung frot menyatakan bahwa posisi seperti [[top, bottom, dan versatile|''top'' dan ''bottom'']] membuat adanya ketidaksetaraan dalam seks.<ref name=Advocate.com/><ref name="out.com">{{cite magazine|first=Tom|last=Dolby|title=Why Some Gay Men Don't Go All The Way|magazine=Out|issue=Februari 2004|accessdate=2011-02-12|pages=76–77|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=jmIEAAAAMBAJ&pg=PA77}}</ref> Pandangan tersebut diperdebatkan oleh ilmuwan yang menyebut bahwa tidak ada bukti jelas yang dapat menunjukkan pola umum atau maskulinitas pada hubungan pria gay. Seks anal dapat dipandang sebagai hal maskulin masing-masing pasangan.<ref name="Harvey, Wenzel, and Sprecher">{{cite book |first1=John H.|last1= Harvey |first2=Amy|last2= Wenzel |first3=Susan |last3=Sprecher |title =The handbook of sexuality in close relationships|isbn = 978-0805845488|publisher=Routledge|year=2004|pages=355–356|accessdate=2011-03-12|url=https://books.google.com/?id=qsl4AgAAQBAJ&pg=PA355}}</ref> Seks anal sering dianggap merupakan seks yang biasa pada LSL.<ref name="Gay vanilla sex">{{cite journal |last1= Bell |first1=Robin |date=13 February 1999 |title=Homosexual men and women |journal=[[BMJ]] |volume=318 |issue=7181 |pages=452–5 |doi=10.1136/bmj.318.7181.452 |url=http://www.bmj.com/content/318/7181/452 |accessdate=9 November 2011 |pmid=9974466 |pmc=1114912 |archive-date=2020-07-11 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20200711103635/https://www.bmj.com/content/318/7181/452 |dead-url=no }}</ref> Beberapa LSL menolak alasan-alasan pendukung frot dan menilai frot sebagai hubungan intim yang lebih rendah.<ref name="Piepenburg"/> Psikolog, Walt Odets, berpikiran bahwa seks anal bagi pria gay dapat dipandang sebaga kesamaan dengan seks penis-vagina bagi orang [[heteroseksual]]. Karena itu, tidak akan mungkin dapat meminta pria gay berhenti melakukan seks anal sama halnya dengan meminta orang heteroseksual berhenti melakukan seks penis-vagina.<ref name=Advocate.com/>

[[Seksologi|Seksolog]] dan ahli [[psikoterapi]], [[Joe Kort]], mengajukan istilah ''side'' untuk pria gay yang tidak tertarik dengan seks anal dan lebih memilih hubungan intim lainnya. Ia menilai bahwa seseorang yang tidak menyukai seks anal buakn berarti ia tidak dapat berhubungan seks "betulan".<ref>{{cite web|url=https://www.huffpost.com/entry/guys-on-the-side-looking-beyond-gay-tops-and-bottoms_b_3082484 |title=Guys on the 'Side': Looking Beyond Gay Tops and Bottoms |last=Kort |first=Joe|website=Huffington Post|date=2013-04-16|accessdate=2014-02-13|archive-date=2021-10-26|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20211026234211/https://www.huffpost.com/entry/guys-on-the-side-looking-beyond-gay-tops-and-bottoms_b_3082484|dead-url=no}}</ref>

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