Doa Keteduhan

Doa Keteduhan adalah doa oleh pemohon untuk kebijaksanaan untuk memahami perbedaan antara keadaan ("hal-hal") yang dapat dan tidak dapat diubah, meminta keberanian untuk mengambil tindakan dalam kasus yang pertama, dan ketenangan untuk menerima dalam kasus yang terakhir. Doa tertulis telah dikaitkan dengan teolog Amerika Reinhold Niebuhr (1892–1971),^[1]^[2] (dia telah mengklaim sebagai penulis, dan telah digunakan dalam khotbah tahun 1943 olehnya di Heath, Massachusetts, dan sesudahnya), tetapi juga kepada rekan Niebuhr Winnifred Crane Wygal [Wikidata], yang mempresentasikannya Maret 1933, dan sekali lagi dalam buku tahun 1940 (dalam kasus terakhir menghubungkannya dengan Niebuhr).^[1] Terlepas dari sejarah dan kebingungan ini, William FitzGerald mengutip doa ini dalam kasus Wygal, dengan alasan seksisme sebagai alasan salah atribusi,^[3] sementara karya Fred Shapiro, dengan lebih banyak nuansa, telah mengganti kesimpulannya, tetapi menyajikan pesan bahwa "keasliannya diperdebatkan" dan Wygal sebagai penulis dalam materi yang berkaitan dengan "The New Yale Book of Quotations", buku yang diterbitkan pada tahun 2021.^[4]^[1]^[5]

Pernyataan Reinhold Niebuhr bahwa ia menulis bentuk singkat dari Doa Keteduhan masih diperdebatkan.^[6]^[7] Fred R. Shapiro, yang meragukan klaim Niebuhr, mengakui pada 2009 bahwa, "Bukti baru tidak membuktikan bahwa Reinhold Niebuhr menulis [Doa Keteduhan], tetapi itu secara signifikan meningkatkan kemungkinan bahwa ia adalah pencetusnya."^[8]

Terlepas dari asal-usulnya, doa tersebut telah mencapai distribusi yang sangat luas, muncul di seluruh kelompok gereja kemudian pada tahun 1930-an, dan di Alcoholics Anonymous dan materi organisasi terkait setidaknya sejak tahun 1941. Setidaknya sejak awal 1960-an, perusahaan komersial seperti [ [Hallmark]] telah menggunakan doa dalam kartu ucapan dan item hadiahnya. Doa tersebut juga masuk ke dalam budaya populer, termasuk dalam karya Bill Watterson, Neil Young dan Sinéad O'Connor, dan pemrograman termasuk True Detective.

Sejarah

Winnifred Crane Wygal [Wikidata] menulis versi awal di Santa Cruz Sentinel tanggal 15 Maret 1933, sebagaimana dicatat dalam penelitian yang dikutip oleh Fred Shapiro, ia membahas entri buku harian Wygal untuk tanggal 31 Oktober 1932. Buku harian itu mereferensikan karya intelektual Niebuhr yang menggunakan frasa "ketenangan". untuk menerima" dan "keberanian untuk berubah", tetapi tidak dalam konteks doa. Ini^[siapa?] menunjukkan bahwa penggunaan doa yang pertama kali diterbitkan mungkin adalah karya Wygal tahun 1933.^[5]^{[sumber mendukung?]}^[9]^[4]

Versi

Doa ini muncul dalam banyak versi.^{[butuh rujukan]} Versi doa Reinhold Niebuhr selalu dicetak sebagai satu kalimat prosa; cetakan yang mengatur doa sebagai tiga baris ayat memodifikasi versi asli penulis.^{[butuh rujukan]} Bentuk yang paling terkenal adalah versi terbaru,Templat:Says who karena menyertakan referensi ke Divine grace yang tidak ditemukan sebelum 1951:^{[butuh rujukan]}

Versi doa yang paling awal diketahui, dari tahun 1937, berikut adalah versi doa yang dikaitkan dengan Niebuhr:

God, give me grace to accept with serenity
the things that cannot be changed,
Courage to change the things
which should be changed,
and the Wisdom to distinguish
the one from the other.^{[kutipan ini butuh rujukan]}

"Bapa, beri kami keberanian untuk mengubah apa yang harus diubah, keteduhan untuk menerima apa yang tidak tertolong, dan pengertian untuk membedakan keduanya."

Versi yang paling populer, yang tidak diketahui siapa pencetusnya, berbunyi:

"Tuhan beri saya keteduhan untuk menerima hal-hal yang tidak dapat saya ubah. Keberanian untuk mengubah hal-hal yang saya dapat ubah. Dan kebijaksanaan untuk mengetahui perbedaannya."

Referensi

^ ^a ^b ^c Kesalahan pengutipan: Tag <ref> tidak sah; tidak ditemukan teks untuk ref bernama Shapiro 2014
^ Kesalahan pengutipan: Tag <ref> tidak sah; tidak ditemukan teks untuk ref bernama Bartletts
^ Kesalahan pengutipan: Tag <ref> tidak sah; tidak ditemukan teks untuk ref bernama Fitzgerald
^ ^a ^b Shapiro, Fred R. (August 23, 2021). Yale Campus (channel): The New Yale Book of Quotations. Berlangsung pada 3:14-4:47. Diakses tanggal May 12, 2023. The Serenity Prayer (Origin is debated)... This is the famous "Serenity Prayer", and it has a very complex and rich origin story. It's usually attributed to Reinhold Niebuhr... I've done a lot of research on this prayer, and almost 20 years have been studying this. If you search newspaper indexes... it was used as far back as 1933. The earliest record we have of someone using it was a woman named Winifred Wygal, an official of the YWCA, wrote the Serenity Prayer, we believe... And this is a actually a pattern that I found in preparing my book, that there are many famous quotes by obscure women that are attributed to famous men... and this I think is the most interesting example of that...
^ ^a ^b Shapiro, Fred R. (2021). The New Yale Book of Quotations. New Haven, Conn.: Yale University Press. hlm. xviii-xix, 907f. ISBN 9780300205978. Diakses tanggal May 12, 2023. ^{[sumber mendukung?]}
^ "Serenity Prayer at AA History & Trivia". www.aahistory.com. Diakses tanggal 2019-12-12.
^ Goodstein, Laurie (2008-07-11). "Serenity Prayer faces challenge on authorship". The New York Times (dalam bahasa Inggris). ISSN 0362-4331. Diakses tanggal 2019-12-12.
^ Goodstein, Laurie (2009-11-27). "Serenity Prayer Skeptic Now Credits Niebuhr". The New York Times (dalam bahasa Inggris). ISSN 0362-4331. Diakses tanggal 2019-12-12.
^ Gonzalez, Susan; Shapiro, Fred R. (August 18, 2021). "You Can Quote Us: The New Yale Book of Quotations Is On Its Way". News.Yale.edu. New Haven, CT: Yale University. Diakses tanggal November 3, 2022. There is also a quotation that is not new—it was in the first edition but receives an entirely revamped treatment in the second edition. It's the 'Serenity Prayer,' which is usually quoted as follows: 'God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.' It's a very compelling quote, and there are countless people who love it and even feel that it's saved their lives. It has generated a large number of origin stories, and, together with Professor William FitzGerald of Rutgers University [at Camden], I have researched it more thoroughly than anyone has ever researched any quote. / The Serenity Prayer is usually attributed to Reinhold Niebuhr, the great theologian and political philosopher. In 2003, his daughter [Elisabeth Sifton] wrote a book called 'The Serenity Prayer' in which she describes how her father allegedly composed the prayer in 1943. Since 2003 I have been researching the origins of the prayer, ultimately discovering that its earliest findable use was actually by an obscure woman named Winnifred Wygal, a Y.W.C.A. official who was an associate of Niebuhr's, with her usage dating as far back as 1933. This new evidence is included in my second edition.

Pranala luar

The Essential Reinhold Niebuhr: Selected Essays and Addresses, editor: Robert McAfee Brown
"Transcending and Transforming the World", in Niebuhr, Reinhold (1927). Does Civilization Need Religion? A Study in the Social Resources and Limitations of Religion in Modern Life. , especially pages 179–81.
Elisabeth Sifton, The Serenity Prayer: Faith and Politics in Times of Peace and War, New York, Norton, 2003 . ISBN 978-0393057461 Elizabeth Sifton was Reinhold Niebuhr's daughter.
- The Serenity Prayer: Faith in Times of Peace and War, National Public Radio - Fresh Air interview with Elisabeth Sifton (20 mins) January 14, 2005
Full documentation (in German) of false claims of authorship
The origin of our Serenity Prayer, at Alcoholics Anonymous
Nell Wing (1981). Origin of the Serenity Prayer: A Historic Paper 12 pp from AA General Service Office Service Material F-129 Rev 7/30/09 Accessed 10/20/22. (Secretary to Bill W., First AA Archivist, 1954-1983)
Serenity Prayer - Quote Investigator December 24, 2019

Templat:Reinhold Niebuhr Templat:Alcoholics Anonymous

[Shapiro_2014-1] Kesalahan pengutipan: Tag <ref> tidak sah; tidak ditemukan teks untuk ref bernama Shapiro 2014

[Bartletts-2] Kesalahan pengutipan: Tag <ref> tidak sah; tidak ditemukan teks untuk ref bernama Bartletts

[Fitzgerald-3] Kesalahan pengutipan: Tag <ref> tidak sah; tidak ditemukan teks untuk ref bernama Fitzgerald

[Shapiro_2021_YouTube-4] Shapiro, Fred R. (August 23, 2021). Yale Campus (channel): The New Yale Book of Quotations. Berlangsung pada 3:14-4:47. Diakses tanggal May 12, 2023. The Serenity Prayer (Origin is debated)... This is the famous "Serenity Prayer", and it has a very complex and rich origin story. It's usually attributed to Reinhold Niebuhr... I've done a lot of research on this prayer, and almost 20 years have been studying this. If you search newspaper indexes... it was used as far back as 1933. The earliest record we have of someone using it was a woman named Winifred Wygal, an official of the YWCA, wrote the Serenity Prayer, we believe... And this is a actually a pattern that I found in preparing my book, that there are many famous quotes by obscure women that are attributed to famous men... and this I think is the most interesting example of that...

[New_Yale_Book_of_Q-5] Shapiro, Fred R. (2021). The New Yale Book of Quotations. New Haven, Conn.: Yale University Press. hlm. xviii-xix, 907f. ISBN 9780300205978. Diakses tanggal May 12, 2023. ^{[sumber mendukung?]}

[6] "Serenity Prayer at AA History & Trivia". www.aahistory.com. Diakses tanggal 2019-12-12.

[7] Goodstein, Laurie (2008-07-11). "Serenity Prayer faces challenge on authorship". The New York Times (dalam bahasa Inggris). ISSN 0362-4331. Diakses tanggal 2019-12-12.

[8] Goodstein, Laurie (2009-11-27). "Serenity Prayer Skeptic Now Credits Niebuhr". The New York Times (dalam bahasa Inggris). ISSN 0362-4331. Diakses tanggal 2019-12-12.

[newyalebooknews-9] Gonzalez, Susan; Shapiro, Fred R. (August 18, 2021). "You Can Quote Us: The New Yale Book of Quotations Is On Its Way". News.Yale.edu. New Haven, CT: Yale University. Diakses tanggal November 3, 2022. There is also a quotation that is not new—it was in the first edition but receives an entirely revamped treatment in the second edition. It's the 'Serenity Prayer,' which is usually quoted as follows: 'God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.' It's a very compelling quote, and there are countless people who love it and even feel that it's saved their lives. It has generated a large number of origin stories, and, together with Professor William FitzGerald of Rutgers University [at Camden], I have researched it more thoroughly than anyone has ever researched any quote. / The Serenity Prayer is usually attributed to Reinhold Niebuhr, the great theologian and political philosopher. In 2003, his daughter [Elisabeth Sifton] wrote a book called 'The Serenity Prayer' in which she describes how her father allegedly composed the prayer in 1943. Since 2003 I have been researching the origins of the prayer, ultimately discovering that its earliest findable use was actually by an obscure woman named Winnifred Wygal, a Y.W.C.A. official who was an associate of Niebuhr's, with her usage dating as far back as 1933. This new evidence is included in my second edition.

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